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Emily Whalley

BACP

Compassionate attachment-focused counselling

  • Attachment work
  • Mindfulness support
  • Relationship focus

About Emily

Emily Whalley is a counsellor who uses attachment-based and client-centred ways of working to help people feel more connected to themselves and others. She holds BACP registration and has three years of clinical experience. Emily offers a calm, curious presence for people facing stress, anxiety, trauma, low self-worth, and relationship strain.

She often helps people who feel uprooted by life changes, including expats, migrants and digital nomads. She also supports those living with depression, grief, and a range of anxiety types, and people coping with the effects of childhood or relational trauma. Body image, addictions and intimacy concerns are other areas she addresses.

Emily blends Attachment-Based Therapy with Client-Centred and Existential approaches in session. That mix is aimed at helping people understand how past relationships shape current feelings and behaviours, while also exploring values and meaning. Mindfulness and Jungian ideas can be woven in to support emotional awareness and self-reflection.

Sessions focus on practical steps as well as deeper understanding. Emily works to reduce shame, build self-compassion and strengthen emotional resilience. Conversations cover communication patterns, commitment issues, codependency and coping strategies for overwhelming feelings.

Her practice is international in scope, and sessions are carried out in English. To begin, people use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability. Costs vary with location and the subscription model can be cancelled at any time.

How attachment and client-centred ideas work online

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape feelings and ways of connecting. Online sessions using this approach help people spot repeating patterns in relationships and practise new ways of relating to themselves and others. Client-Centred Therapy puts the person’s experience at the heart of the work; the counsellor offers empathic listening and reflection to help people find their own solutions and sense of agency.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy journey. The counsellor will talk with clients about their goals, struggles and preferred ways of working, and then suggest which methods to try. This is a collaborative process and can change as needs evolve.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, for example by reducing travel time and allowing appointments across time zones for international clients. It can also allow shorter check-ins when needed, or sessions that use audio rather than video if that feels simpler. As the biography does not list specific session formats, confirm the available options before booking so you know what will work best for your schedule.

Professional registration

BACP United Kingdom · No. 410159

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Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this counsellor help with?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy issues, self-esteem and body image concerns, addictions, grief and life changes.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is warm and collaborative, combining Attachment-Based, Client-Centred and Existential approaches with mindfulness and Jungian ideas to support self-understanding and practical coping.

How much professional experience does she have?

She has three years of experience working in therapeutic organisations and online with clients around the world.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with the BACP and practices from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in and are international clients supported?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start therapy with this counsellor?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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