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Kayla "Kai" Coca

LMHC

Trauma-informed, neurodivergent-affirming LMHC

  • Trauma-informed care
  • Neurodivergent-affirming
  • Eating and body image

About Kayla

Kayla "Kai" Coca is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) practicing in New York. Kai brings four years of therapy experience and prior crisis work to sessions. They describe themselves as trauma-informed and neurodivergent-affirming, and they focus on meeting each person's goals and needs. Taking the first step is often hard, and Kai aims to make that moment easier.

Kai uses an eclectic mix of approaches tailored to each person. Sessions center on collaboration and practical steps. The work often includes making sense of past hurt, building coping skills, and finding ways to handle day-to-day challenges. Conversations are direct but respectful, aimed at helping people feel steadier in their lives.

Many people come for support with mood differences, trauma and abuse, identity questions, or attention and focus struggles. Kai also helps with body image and eating and food-related issues. They pay attention to how neurodivergence and culture shape each person's experience.

In sessions Kai listens first and then helps set clear goals. They combine tools from problem-solving therapies and skill-based models with attention to emotions and history. The therapist encourages clients to use their strengths and to try small, workable changes between meetings.

Kai welcomes questions about the process and what an initial session looks like. People who are curious can expect a straightforward, compassionate conversation about next steps and practical supports.

How therapy approaches translate to online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people clarify what matters most and take small actions that match those values. It is useful for motivation, life direction, and coping with difficult emotions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on practical problem solving and changing unhelpful patterns of thought and behavior. It can help with mood differences, anxiety, and planning concrete experiments to test new habits. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes listening and a nonjudgmental relationship to help people feel understood and to develop their own solutions.

Picking the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about goals and preferences, and together they will try methods that fit. That means sessions can mix approaches to focus on what helps the client most in day-to-day life.

The biography does not list specific online formats, so confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also let people use tools and worksheets between meetings more easily. Licensed professionals can adapt ACT, CBT, and client-centered techniques to remote sessions so the work stays practical and focused on real changes.

License and NPI

LMHC New York · No. 016296
NPI1821549650

As shown on the therapist's profile. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsDissociationEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGender dysphoriaHearing impairedLife purposeMood disordersMulticultural concernsPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Psychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

4+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this therapist help with?

Kai works with people on trauma and abuse, mood differences, ADHD, LGBT concerns, and related issues. They also focus on body image and eating and food-related issues among other areas.

What is the therapist's approach or style in sessions?

Sessions are trauma-informed and neurodivergent-affirming with an eclectic mix of methods. The therapist emphasizes collaboration, clear goals, and practical steps between meetings.

What is their background and experience?

Kai has four years of therapy experience and previously did crisis work for many years. That background informs how they handle emotional intensity and urgent concerns.

What credentials and location are listed?

The therapist is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, licensed in New York and practices there.

Which languages does the therapist use and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How does cost and payment work?

Fees vary with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Confirm pricing details during the sign-up process.

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