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Lance Lashley

LCSW, LISW

Practical, respectful support for mood and relationship concerns

  • Focus on daily skills
  • Affirming approach
  • Goal oriented

About Lance

Lance Lashley is a licensed clinical social worker practicing in New Mexico. He holds LCSW and LISW credentials and brings six years of professional experience to sessions. Lance focuses on practical ways to reduce distress and improve day-to-day functioning.

Lance works with people facing anxiety and depression. He also supports those navigating bipolar mood patterns, relationship struggles, and issues related to sexual orientation and gender identity. He aims to treat everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion.

In a session, Lance tailors conversation and a plan to each person’s needs. He uses clear, direct techniques so clients leave with concrete steps. Expect a mix of short-term skills and deeper reflection depending on what helps most.

Lance draws from several approaches, including cognitive behavioral techniques, dialectical behavior ideas, and motivational interviewing. He combines these with psychodynamic and solution-focused ways of looking at problems when useful.

He encourages people to see starting therapy as a courageous step. Sessions focus on what clients want to change, and on building manageable steps toward those goals. The tone is practical, collaborative, and respectful.

Approaches used online and how they help

Many people find cognitive behavioral therapy helpful for changing unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns; CBT provides tools to notice thoughts, test them, and try small behavioral experiments to see what changes. Dialectical behavior therapy adds practical skills for managing strong emotions and improving relationships, with a focus on distress tolerance and clearer communication. Motivational interviewing is a brief, collaborative way to sort out ambivalence and build internal motivation for change, useful when someone feels stuck.

Finding the best approach is a shared process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, try methods that fit those goals, and adjust the plan over time. Clients and the therapist decide together which tools feel most useful.

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm available online session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins on busy days. It also lets people use approaches like CBT and DBT skills practice between meetings so progress continues between sessions.

License and NPI

LCSW New Mexico · No. C-12181
LISW Iowa · No. 095400
NPI1598438491

As shown on the therapist's profile. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesBipolar disorderDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAvoidant personalityBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsDependent personalityDissociationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsGender dysphoriaIsolation / lonelinessMen's issuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Sex addictionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Motivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

New Mexico, Iowa

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Lance work with?

He focuses on stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar mood issues, relationship strain, and LGBT related matters, plus areas like body image and substance concerns.

What is his therapy style like?

He uses a practical, respectful style that mixes short-term skills with deeper reflection. Conversations are tailored to each person and emphasize concrete steps.

What background and experience does he bring?

He has six years of professional experience working with mood and relationship concerns and related issues such as abandonment, dissociation, and communication problems.

Which credentials and location apply to his practice?

He holds LCSW and LISW credentials and practices in New Mexico.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and he is not currently working with international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How does cost and billing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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