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Nilson Mejia

LMHC

Listening first, building practical skills

  • Client-centered
  • CBT and DBT
  • English and Spanish

About Nilson

Nilson Mejia is a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) based in New York who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, and concerns around self-esteem and relationships. He speaks English and Spanish and aims to create a space where clients feel heard and understood. Nilson’s first goal is to listen and make sense of what is happening for each person who comes in.

He uses straightforward, practical methods to address common problems. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and mindfulness tools are part of his approach when they fit a client's needs. Nilson also draws on client-centered and motivational techniques during sessions to focus on what matters most to the individual.

Over five years of practice, he has worked with people dealing with parenting stress, work and career strain, relationship and intimacy-related issues, and emotional regulation challenges such as anger or impulsivity. He also supports those struggling with body image, attachment concerns, codependency, and feelings of isolation or emptiness.

Sessions involve talking through current struggles, identifying patterns that keep problems going, and building simple skills to try between meetings. Nilson emphasizes collaboration and practical steps so progress feels manageable. He invites people to share their story and to set goals that reflect their daily life.

People interested in getting started will complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability. The subscription used for sessions can be canceled at any time.

Approaches that translate well to online work

Nilson often uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people spot unhelpful thoughts and test new ways of responding. CBT focuses on practical exercises and homework that can be reviewed together in sessions. He also draws on Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills to teach emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal tools useful for intense feelings or conflicts.

Motivational Interviewing and client-centered skills are part of his collaborative approach. He works with people to clarify goals and to choose strategies that match their values and daily routines. Figuring out which approach fits best is a joint process that evolves over the first few sessions.

If you are considering online work, confirm the current session options before booking. The therapist’s methods emphasize clear skill-building and short practice tasks that can fit into busy schedules. Online sessions can make it easier to keep regular meetings, fit therapy into work or family calendars, and review written tools or worksheets together during the appointment.

License and NPI

LMHC New York · No. 011671
NPI1639747967

As shown on the therapist's profile. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Relationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Antisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)EmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English, Spanish

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Nilson help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, self-esteem and relationship or intimacy-related problems, plus parenting and career-related strain.

What is his general therapy style?

Sessions are collaborative and practical, combining client-centered listening with techniques from CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing.

What background does he bring to sessions?

Nilson has five years of clinical experience and focuses on helping people make sense of their story and set achievable goals.

Where is Nilson licensed and practicing?

He is a New York licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) practicing out of New York.

In which languages are sessions offered?

Sessions are offered in English and Spanish.

Can people from other countries work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions billed?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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