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Nisha Irfan

BACP

Calm, relational support for trauma and stress

  • Trauma informed
  • Attachment focused
  • Mindful approaches

About Nisha

Nisha Irfan is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, low self-esteem and depression. She works with concerns including relationship and intimacy issues, body image, ADHD and parenting strain. Her practice also covers sexual assault and abuse, seasonal affective disorder and self-harm support. Nisha uses a humanistic, relational style in sessions. She focuses on building trust and understanding what matters to each person. Her work is trauma informed and aims to calm the nervous system as well as working with thoughts and emotions. She holds a Masters in Counselling and Psychotherapy from the University of Nottingham. She also completed a Diploma in Clinical Supervision at the Centre for Personal and Professional Development. Nisha is accredited by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, a recognition for experienced practitioners who meet professional standards. She follows the BACP Ethical Framework and Professional Conduct Procedure in her practice. Her clinical tools include eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing, which she uses to address distress tied to traumatic memories, and tension, trauma and stress releasing exercises, which aim to ease held muscular tension and lower arousal. She also draws on cognitive and mindfulness approaches when helpful. Clients can expect conversations that combine emotional presence with practical techniques. Nisha adapts her approach to what the person needs, whether that means short-term skills for coping or deeper relational work to understand patterns and attachment.

How Nisha’s approaches work online and in therapy

Nisha uses attachment-based work to help people understand patterns in relationships and how early bonds affect current feelings and behaviour. This approach focuses on how people connect and responds to worries about closeness, trust and boundaries.

She also uses eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing, a method that helps reduce distress linked to traumatic memories by processing them in a different way. Alongside that she draws on mindfulness techniques to help calm the body and mind and manage overwhelming emotions.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The counsellor will discuss your goals and preferences, try methods that match your needs, and adjust as progress is made. You can expect decisions about approach to be made together rather than imposed.

Be sure to confirm the current session options before booking, as formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into daily life, for example by reducing travel time and allowing shorter check-ins during a lunch break. It can also help when quieter surroundings or lower-bandwidth options suit the person better. Registered or accredited professionals can explain which format will best support your goals during the initial scheduling process and adapt practical arrangements to suit your routine.

Professional registration

BACP United Kingdom · No. 117737

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Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsDissociationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesForgivenessIsolation / lonelinessSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatization

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

12+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this counsellor help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief and low self-esteem, plus body image, relationship and intimacy-related worries among other issues.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is humanistic and relational, aiming to build trust and depth in the counselling relationship while remaining trauma informed.

What professional background does she have?

She has 12 years of experience and completed a Masters in Counselling and Psychotherapy and a Diploma in Clinical Supervision.

What credentials and where does she practise?

She holds accreditation with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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