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Shelby Fryar

LPC

Trauma-informed counselor focused on daily skills

  • Trauma work
  • DBT skills
  • Attachment focus

About Shelby

Shelby Fryar is a Licensed Professional Counselor with experience in both private practice and residential settings. She helps people who are facing stress, anxiety, addiction, trauma, depressed mood, low energy, and eating or body-image concerns. Shelby aims to meet people where they are and support small steps toward feeling better.

She keeps sessions client-directed so the person sets the pace and goals. Shelby draws on approaches that focus on relationships and how early attachments shape current patterns. She also uses skills-based strategies to manage strong emotions, reduce reactive behaviors, and sharpen awareness of thoughts and urges.

Shelby has spent time working with people in acute crisis and with addiction in residential care. That experience informs a practical approach in routine sessions, where she balances grounding skills with deeper trauma work when needed. She typically mixes skills practice, reflective conversation, and targeted processing depending on each person’s needs.

Clients can expect straightforward language and step-by-step tools to try between sessions. Shelby emphasizes coping strategies that can be used in daily life, such as emotion regulation, mindfulness, and motivational techniques to support change. Her aim is to help people build more stable routines and clearer reasons for the choices they make.

She holds the LPC credential, and currently works in Tennessee. Shelby offers a calm, nonjudgmental presence while helping people sort painful memories, manage cravings or overwhelming emotions, and rebuild a sense of purpose.

How Shelby Uses Therapeutic Approaches Online

Shelby works with approaches that focus on relationships, emotional skills, and trauma processing. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and helps people notice and change repeating cycles in relationships. Dialectical Behavior Therapy - DBT - teaches concrete skills for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and mindfulness to reduce reactive behaviors and improve daily functioning. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing - EMDR - involves structured processing of traumatic memories to lessen their intensity and the distress they cause, often paired with grounding and stabilization skills.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Shelby will listen to goals, try different methods, and adjust what she uses based on what helps most. Sessions are paced to each person, moving between skills practice and deeper processing as readiness develops.

Confirm current session formats before booking since specific delivery options are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life by reducing travel time and allowing shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. It can also let people practice skills between sessions in daily settings and maintain continuity of care when routines change.

License and NPI

LPC Tennessee · No. 5241
LPC Texas · No. 91479
NPI1417557224

As shown on the therapist's profile. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBody imageCo-morbidityDissociationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSexualityWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyDialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Motivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

Tennessee, Texas

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Shelby commonly address?

Shelby works with stress, anxiety, addiction, trauma and abuse, depression, eating and body-image issues, grief, and related concerns like isolation or mood disorders.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her approach is client-directed and practical, combining relationship-focused work with skills training so people learn tools they can use between sessions.

What kind of experience does she have?

She has three years of clinical experience and has worked in both private practice and residential settings supporting people in acute crisis and addiction care.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds the LPC credential and is licensed in Tennessee and Texas, with practice based in Tennessee.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session formats before booking, as session delivery options are not specified here.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What is the first step to begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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